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Here is what is included in this issue:
l Viagra and Swinging
l Benefits of Swinging to Relationships
l Shopping
l Lifestyle Events
l Swing Club Listings
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Viagra and Swinging
(Please Note: I am not a Doctor)
It may come as quite a shock to you that many guys in the Swinging environment, at one time or another, have suffered from performance anxiety. This is surprising because for men Swinging is a dream come true. Who doesn't have the fantasy of being with two women at once? Who doesn't want to check out Group Sex?
Here's the dilemma. We've hoped for such fantasies to come true to such an extent, than when such an occasion arrives, "Mr. Happy" fails to rise to the occasion. This is due to the natural nervousness that comes about as a result of finally attaining your dream. The problem is that nervousness or anxiety and erections simply don't mix. Plus, the more you want your "member" to cooperate, the more nervous you tend to become.
Another challenge is that of desensitization. There is so much nudity and eroticism in front of you that it isn't as stimulating as being alone with your partner! This is similar to the reason that you'll never see an erection at a nudist resort.
Many people turn to Viagra for the answer. I repeat, "I am not a doctor." Since I am not a Doctor, medically, I cannot recommend Viagra. I can say however that many men comment that Viagra does surely work to achieve and maintain erections. There are many side effects though. Furthermore to many people, taking Viagra is extremely dangerous. It can even cause death, if taken by someone who is at risk.
Often Viagra is floating around at Swing Parties. It is also available from on-line sources. It is my opinion that you should not ever procure Viagra through any of these avenues. It is a serious drug that I recommend you only obtain by prescription resulting from a face to face appointment with a medical Doctor.
More people than you think use Viagra in the Swinging Environment. They are fine at home, but in a pressured environment they enjoy having the pressure removed.
What if you don't want to go the medical route. There is now available a non - prescription alternative to Viagra, called Vigel which works faster, is safe and much less expensive. If you're interested in looking into this, the link is:
www.advancedpassion.com/vigelformen.htm
The same company makes Vigel for Women, which is just like the name implies. It is used to safely and quickly increase a woman's sexual arousal and excitement. The link for this product is:
http://www.advancedpassion.com/
I personally think both these products are fantastic! I'm very interested in hearing your
comments and stories.
-Steve
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Benefits of Swinging
To
Relationships
Excerpted from Secrets of Swinging by Steve Anderson
No, this chapter is not just propaganda for the women. It is absolutely true that for those that approach it properly, there are astounding benefits derived from swinging to a relationship. In fact, statistically the divorce rate among swingers, is considerably lower than that of the rest of the population.
This is not to say that Swingers need to be married. It is better though if you are a tightly bound couple. Swinging is not something to do on a date or once a year on your birthday. It is a consciously adopted lifestyle that requires education, communication, patience and understanding to be successful. Doesn't that sound a little familiar? Isn't that also the formula
for a successful relationship? Of course it does. That's just one of the reasons that relationships and Swinging compliment each other so effectively. Here are the significant reasons swinging will benefit your relationship. (assuming you have a healthy relationship to begin with)
1. Swinging opens lines of communications - Your satisfaction and longevity in the lifestyle both depend on bi-directional communications. So that there is no misunderstanding here, that means not only speaking, but listening.
2. Swinging fosters trust - Your individual trust is like a muscle. The more you use it, the stronger your trust muscle gets. Swinging is the perfect opportunity to exercise this muscle in a controlled environment, with mutually agreed upon rules.
3. Swinging teaches Jealousy management - Jealousy is part of human nature. There are times when it catches all of us by surprise. Swinging helps in dealing with jealous feelings by facing them head on with open communications. Dealing with jealousy is similar to overcoming a fear. Sometimes the best way to overcome a fear is to bring it out in the open and face it.
4. Swinging fights cheating - Most swingers will tell you, especially the guys, that they would be crazy to cheat! Why should they when they already have the best of all worlds? Most people cheat to feed their ego or for a change of pace. Swinging provides numerous avenues to feed
the ego and eliminate boredom.
5. Swinging adds spice to a relationship - Let's face it. Any activity, no matter how stimulating, eventually gets boring, without change.
6. Swinging improves sex - Before a swinging encounter the thought of it makes sex very exciting. After the encounter the memory of it makes sex better than ever.
7. Swinging provides Experiences - One partner often complains that they've only been intimate with a very few people in their life. They regret that they never "sowed some wild oats." Swinging lets you spread those oats!
8. Swinging is great for role-play and fantasy - Here is a fertile ground to act out your fantasies and live your dreams.
9. Swinging Teaches - By actually seeing people have sex, you see what others do. This stimulates ideas for more fun in the relationship.
I can tell you from personal experience and the experiences of countless others, that the benefits I'm describing are valid. People that learn, communicate and are patient improve their relationships from the Swinging experience.
Excerpted from Secrets of Swinging by Steve Anderson
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Shopping
This news letter is FREE to you, because it is funded by our sponsors. Please visit their sites.
-Steve
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Swinging Lifestyle Events
Every Saturday Evening - 8:00 EST
The Dr. Robyn Show
You can listen every Saturday evening Online! This is a very
informative and entertaining radio talk show...you really don't want to
miss it! Tune in at: http://www.thedrrobynshow.com/showindex.htm
May 15-19, 2002
Miami in May: A Tess & Bob production. The French Connection, PO Box 2592,
Covington, LA 70435-2592, Phone: 504-416-7940; Fax: 985-871-9881;
E-mail: frenchconx@aol.com; Web: http://www.miamiinmay.com. Annual Convention, from the same producers of the popular N'awlins in November. Located right on Miami Beach with access to nearby Haulover Beach, voted the top nude beach in America. Oceanfront rooms, entertainment, boutiques and Hot Miami Nights you will never forget
July 31-August 4, 2002
LIFESTYLES Convention: By LSO, Ltd. The Lifestyles Organization, PO Box
6978, Buena Park, CA 90622-6978; 714-821-9953; Fax: 714-821-9919;
E-mail: Convention@lifestyles.org; Web: http://www.lifestyles-convention.com.
Annual international convention, since 1973, held every summer. The largest gathering of PlayCouples in the world. Academic and experiential presentations on lifestyle, relationships, sexuality, topical subjects; Adult Marketplace exhibits; Erotic Art Exhibit; games, theme dances; Ms. Lifestyles Swimsuit Pageant, Evening of Caressive Intimacy and Erotic Masquerade Banquet & Ball. Events are sponsored by resorts, airlines and various corporations. All couples welcome. We return to the fabulous RENO HILTON HOTEL which was the site of Lifestyles 1999 & 2000. This time it will be a complete hotel takeover.
October 25-26, 2002
Bewitched on the Beach
Gail & Pee Wee PO Box 901, Wiggins, MS 39577; 601-928-7716
Email: host@bewitchedonthebeach.com Web: http://www.bewitchedonthebeach.com
A Swinging Couples Hotel takeover! Two days of Sun, Sea, Sand and Sex!
October 10-13, 2002
Entice 2001
CandleLight Associates brings you the Second Annual International
lifestyle convention - this year in Niagara Falls New York ENTICE 2001
received fantastic reviews from its attendees, receiving a 10 out of 10 for
many of their events. Email: candleny@rochester.rr.com Web: http://candleassociates.com
PS I'll see you there!
All of the above are FREE listings. Please contact
us to list your lifestyles events of regional or
national interest. Place "New Event Listing"
in the subject"
steve_anderson@letspartynaked.com
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Swing Club Listings
Dawn of www.MatchesPlus.com has kindly offered to maintain our list of Swing Clubs at her web site. If you have any additions or changes to the list, please contact her at:
webmaster@matchesplus.com
Here is the link for the listings:
Swing Club Listings
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The Lets Party Naked News Letter is compiled by Steve Anderson, the
author of Secrets of Swinging. Secrets of Swinging will show you how to Find A Partner to Swing with, Introduce Your Partner to the Lifestyle, Where the Clubs Are, plus how to Approach Swinging as a Single.
Steve Anderson
http://www.letspartynaked.com
1770 S. Randall Rd.
104A
Geneva, IL 60134
Toll free: 1-866-546-2824
steve_anderson@letspartynaked.com
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