The Let's Party Naked
Newsletter

Here's what's included in this August,  2003 Issue of the Let's Party Naked
Newsletter:

l A note from Steve

l Club Humor

l Matchesplus.com Instant Messaging Update

l Adult Toy Recommendation of The Month

l Ask Dawn.  (New Feature)

l Fun Stuff (Including Crystal Clear Movies)


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A note from Steve

Have you ever noticed in the spring, how long it takes people to realize they can do nice weather activities outside again?  The weather in May (at least in the Midwest), is often beautiful, but people don't hit the parks and beaches until June.  It's as if it takes a while for the nice weather concepts to sink in.

There is a similar occurrence near the middle of the summer.  Some people count the summer over when the kids head back to school or at the latest, Labor Day.  This is when the nice weather is more or less taken for granted.  In fact you'll hear more and more complaints about the heat and some anticipation of cooler weather.  Of course in a few months the winter begins, with the associated complaints about the cold.  It's remarkable that the same sunny 50 degree day can feel cool in September and Warm in April. 

What's the point??  The point is that sometimes it takes a conscious extra effort to enjoy the seasons and life itself.  My wish for you this summer is to "get out there."  Do something you've always wanted to do or haven't done for a long time.  Don't let yourself fall into the rut of waiting for something to happen.  Instead, make things happen!  Don't wait for a particular month, season or the perfect day.

The same concept applies to relationships.  If you're with a partner now, concentrate on maintaining, improving or bringing back the "spark" of early romance.  Do something nice just for them.  We often tend to underestimate the significance of this person in our life.  The fact that they are always there, sometimes numbs us to how much they enrich our lives.

You should both also strive to do nice things for your relationships as well.  Go for a walk, try a new club, have sex somewhere new, try a new position, room, or couple, etc.  Spend a day or weekend at a nudist resort......  Or enjoy an evening in a hotel in your own town.  Sleep late and have a nice brunch.  There are endless opportunities, but also unlimited excuses.  Don't wait.  Become more aggressive at enjoying life and your relationship.

If you're alone and don't wish to be, rekindle the effort now for companionship this winter.

Here's some advise to get you started:

1.  Finding a companion is a combination of exposure and presentation.  Get yourself among people.  Smile at others.  Say hi.  Make a comment about your surroundings, what they are wearing, the weather, whatever....  Be ready with a little follow-up chatter to maintain the moment.  Also be prepared for failure.  You may need to talk with many people before something "clicks," so enjoy the process.  Don't take any encounter personally.

In terms of presentation, look your best, but not for the reason you think.  There are plenty of people that have met their lifetime companions when they them self were dressed shabbily and poorly groomed.  The fact is though that most of us feel more confident when we look our best.  And believe it or not, interacting with people is more about confidence than it is about looks.

2.  Meeting the "right" person or couple is all about playing the numbers game.  Talk to a lot of people, get rejected a lot, and eventually you'll get the "yes." Remember the person that hits the most home runs is often also the one that strikes out the most.  You have to take a lot of swings (lol), to get a hit.

Well I've gone from enjoying the weather to Swinging.  I need to switch to DE-CAF.

The point is:

These are the good old days.
       -Carly Simon (1973)

I hope you make the best of them!

Steve Anderson


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Club Humor

Each month submissions from Club newsletters, and and Let's Party Naked subscribers will be accepted for
publication. If your submission is chosen, your link will be included. If you don't
have a website, you'll receive a Free Gold Membership to http://www.matchesplus.com/.

Here is this issue's selection:

A man moves into a nudist colony. He receives
a letter from his mother asking him to send her
a current photo of himself in his new location.

Too embarrassed to let her know that he lives
in a nudist colony, he cuts a photo in half and
sends her the top part.

Later he receives another letter asking him to
send a picture to his grandmother. The man
cuts another picture in half, but accidentally
sends the bottom half of the photo.

He is really worried when he realizes that he
sent the wrong half, but then remembers how
bad his grandmother's eyesight is, and hopes
she won't notice.

A few weeks later he receives a letter from his
grandmother.

It says..... "Thank you for the picture. You should
change your hair style....it makes your nose look
too short!"


This month's selection was from Jamie!  Jamie will receive a one year membership to www.matchesplus.com and a free copy of my E-book, Secrets Of Swinging.

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Matchesplus.com Instant Messaging Update

There is some very big news coming out of www.matchesplus.com.  Dawn has hooked up with the AOL instant messaging system.  This applies to everyone that has placed a free ad with matchesplus.  Whenever you are logged into AOL or AOL instant messaging, Your matchesplus listing will show that you are on-line.  Then directly from your listing, people will be able to instantly message you!

Here is an example:

Let's say that a Couple is searching for a couple, single male or female.  They'll enter the sexuality and age range of the people they're looking for.  They also enter the distance they're willing to travel and their own zip code.  The Matchesplus System then churns for a moment and pumps out a list of ads which match these criteria.  This list is sorted by distance to your zip code.

Now with the new AOL instant messaging feature, each Matchesplus member that is line will be marked with AOL's little yellow/orange guy.  This shows that they are available for instant messaging!

People are never "hotter" for what they're looking for, than when they're on-line looking for it.

Let the games begin!

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Adult Toy Recommendation Of The Month

Here is a suggestion for the orgasm of her life!!!

The Magic Wand - According to  Dawn (Matchesplus.com) this device is so much
better than any other vibrator that it is in a class of its own.  She In some regards this is like
a body massager on steroids.  I heard about it on a sex radio show about ten years ago. It's
still the standard today for teaching women to orgasm.  This is because it's so quick, easy and intense.

At first, because it's so powerful put a towel between the Magic Wand and her clitoris.  Let her do the driving at first because it's quite a ride!  Men and women will find that this masterpiece of technology will cause effortless ecstasy.

Everything has a down side and there is no exception here.  Be cautioned that the use of the magic wand may become habit forming.

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Ask Dawn

Dawn of the Adult Personals Ads website www.matchesplus.com, is beginning a new feature which will be carried here in the "Let's Party Naked Newsletter. "  It's called "Ask Dawn."  In this column she'll answer questions from subscribers to this newsletter, as well as her website, regarding the Swinging Lifestyle and relationships.

Dawn asked me to relate that it will be you the reader that will make this column a success.  Please mail any questions for Dawn to:  webmaster@matchesplus.com.  She also asked me to tell you that your name and email will be held in strictest confidence.

Fun Stuff!


Sybian and Venus II
The ultimate in sexual stimulation. The Sybian is for Women.
The Venus II is for men.
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Crystalclear Movies Has the highest quality on-line Adult movies I've ever seen.  The image resolution is so good you can even watch them Full Screen without degradation.  And something else.... These Movies are Hot!!!  Plus, they add a new movie, with new people, every single day! 


Adult Toys
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Wish Pearl Jewelry
You get the Jewelry and a real Pearl. The Pearl
is in a real oyster. You Harvest the Pearl yourself!
Beautiful and Affordable!
www.galaxymall.com/jewelry/wishpearl/


Secrets Of Swinging - An 85 page e-book, Written by me, Steve Anderson

A gift for yourself. A book for both the experienced and uninitiated.

Secrets of Swinging will show you:

1. How to participate in Threesomes and Sex Orgies.

2. The top 10 Reasons some Couples want a Single guy to join them.

3. How to Introduce your Sexual Partner to Swinging.

4. How to tell the fakes, phonies and posers in Chat Rooms, AOL's Instant Messages, and email.

5. How to find a sexual partner that will Get Into Swinging.

6. How to find and attend a Swing Club.

And much more......

Here's the link for the book:

Secrets Of Swinging
http://www.letspartynaked.com/


Matchesplus Swingers Personals Ads
Make some new swinger friends for the New
Year.
http://www.matchesplus.com/


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The Lets Party Naked News Letter is compiled by Steve Anderson, the
author of Secrets of Swinging. Secrets of Swinging will show you how to Find A.
Partner to Swing with, Introduce Your Partner to the Lifestyle, Where the Clubs
Are, plus how to Approach Swinging as a Single.
Contributions are graciously accepted at:

Steve Anderson

1770 S. Randall Rd.
104A
Geneva, IL 60134
1-866-546-2824
www.letspartynaked.com

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