The Let's Party Naked
Newsletter
Here’s what’s included in this issue:
l The top ten reasons you should be less nervous at a swing
club, than at a wedding.
l Is it safe to Post my Picture On-line?
l New confidential Telephone Service
l Holiday Gift Ideas
l Current Lifestyles Calendar
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Seasons Greetings,
Steve Anderson
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The Top Ten reasons
There’s Less Stress at a Swing Club
Than at a Wedding
1. You’re not required to kiss anyone (unless you want).
2. There is no ceremony you’ll feel guilty for missing.
3. You don’t have to bring a gift.
4. You don’t have to hear a bad wedding DJ.
5. There is more to eat than chicken.
6. You won’t be asked to make a toast.
7. If your clothes become uncomfortable, you can take them off.
8. You get to decide whom you sit with.
9. Better toys.
10. Sex is a great stress reducer
By the way, none of the above applies if you attend a wedding at
Hedo II, in Jamaica. I can tell you from personal experience that
this kind of wedding is totally stress free. [wink]
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Is it Safe
To Post
My Picture On-line?
“A picture is worth a thousand words”, is certainly true when it comes
to adult personals. For good or bad, people do judge each other by
their appearance. This is not a foolproof way of determining what
someone is like. But until you actually meet someone, it does add a
degree of credibility. There is no getting around it. Adding a picture to
your ad will increase your response ten fold.
There are three major reasons that a person doesn’t post a picture
with their ad:
1. No picture handy/procrastination
2. Insecurity about ones appearance
3. Fear of discovery and misuse of ones picture
Let’s take a look at these issues one at a time. In this day and age,
not having a picture available is really no excuse. In the old days, it
was a legitimate issue, especially if you wanted a nude or risqué picture.
No one wanted the kid at the local photo shop to see their private photos.
But even then there were Polaroid’s. Today you have many more options.
You still have the instant cameras, but with the advent of the Digital
Camera, you can photograph anything you want and still preserve
your complete privacy.
With the on-line swingers ads, the excuse was always the unavailability
of a scanner. Today, scanners are so inexpensive that nearly anyone
that wants one can have one. Also, nearly everywhere film is developed;
transferring your pictures to CD Rom is very inexpensive.
Many people don’t want to post their picture out of insecurity about their
appearance. If you share this attitude you need to change it. It just does
not make sense. The fact is that most people that are searching the ads
do not look like models or movie stars themselves. Some do of course,
but they are in the minority, just like in real life.
The Swinging Population is made up of a slice of society. In other words
it’s a representative sample. You have people of all shapes, sizes, colors,
race, religion and vocation. Look at the people in a public place. Observe
people in a movie theatre, train station or airport. The people at these places
are a representative sample, not the people you see on television, movies
and in magazines. In addition, the logic in not posting a picture with your ad
because of your appearance is flawed. Think about what you are trying to
do. Meet people. They’re going to see you then anyway!
Fear of discovery and misuse of one’s picture are legitimate concerns. If
these are major issues for you and you cannot afford to be discovered it
becomes a no-brainer. Don’t show your face! Why risk it? It makes no sense.
Still post your picture though. Simply pose in a way that doesn’t show your face.
People can still tell a lot about you even if they can’t see your face. If you’re
working with an existing picture it’s a simple matter to block out enough of
your face that no one would recognize you.
In terms of fear of people misusing your picture, it is legitimate. Sometimes
people will pose as someone they are not, by using other peoples pictures.
Fortunately the people doing this are usually too stupid to use a realistic
picture. They’ll use some porn they picked up that is obviously not them.
It still is a real concern though. There are on-line Swingers Personals Ads
providers that address the issue through various levels of copy protection.
The best for this is MatchesPlus at http://www.matchesplus.com. They have
five levels of protection for your pictures. In fact they'll also scan your pic for
free and do any blocking you wish.
(Excerpt from Secrets of Swinging http://www.letspartynaked.com)
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New Confidential Telephone Service
Finding a new mate online just became easier and safer!
Online personals and dating sites are a great way to meet that someone
special. Millions of people post their qualities, desires, and photos in
hopes of finding the perfect mate or swinging partners!
These sites keep their member's identities secret, revealing that type of
information is left to each person. Online relationships often grow to the
point where people wish to communicate beyond email and chat.
But on the Internet, it's a risky step to reveal your phone number. Concerns
for privacy and safety often delay or prevent that exciting next step.
But with Talkrules™ privacy and safety are always ensured. Send a
Talkrules™ link to your potential mate and feel secure that your phone
number will stay private, and you can always control when that person
can call you, or stop them permanently.
How do you use Talkrules™ with a personals site? It's easy, just use the
private email or chat system built into the site to send a Special Link to your
online friend. The rule tied to that link will control what hours of the day, days
of the week, and for how many days/months/years that person can call you.
Remember, ConcealedCall™ technology will keep your phone number private,
and you will ALWAYS be able to disable a Talkrules™ link if you decide to
prevent someone from calling you.
You may obtain more information about Talkrules™ here.
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Holiday Gift Ideas
Sybian and Venus II
The ultimate in sexual stimulation
Pyrex Dildos
It's no joke. This on-line Adult Toy Store actually has glass dildos.
They're functional and beautiful. I've ordered one for my coffee table!
They also have every other sex toy on the planet.
Wish Pearl Jewelery
Beautiful and Affordable!
Secrets Of Swinging
A gift for yourself. A book for both the experienced and unitiated.
Matchesplus Swingers Personals Ads
Another gift for yourself. Make some new swinger friends for the New
Year
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Swinging Lifestyle Events
November 21, 2001
The Dr. Robyn Show - An interview with Steve Anderson,
Author of Secrets of Swinging. Don't miss it! The #1 rated talk
show on sex, orgasms and alternative lifestyles on radio today!
You can listen every Wednesday evening Online! This is a very
informative and entertaining radio talk show...you really don't want to
miss it! http://www.thedrrobynshow.com/showindex.htm
Feb 1-3, 2002
Wind and Waves: Deb & Don PO Box 3492, Renton, WA 98056; 425-226-9605;
Email: windwaves2002@aol.com; Web: www.peoplesc.com. People Choice
presents our Annual Wind and Waves at Ocean Shores, Washington This is the
biggest Event ever in the Pacific Northwest. Includes two dances, two continental
breakfasts, sit down dinner and a wine and cheese get together. For more information,
please contact Deb & Don directly.
April 10-14, 2002
Lifestyles-East, Miami Beach, FL. E-mail: info@Couples-Miami-Beach.com
Web: http://www.lifestyles-east.com The Lifestyles Organization that has been bringing
you conventions for 28 years is going to start a tradition on the East Coast. Our first annual
Miami Beach Couples Convention will include all the incredible events and features that
have made The Lifestyles Convention the world's largest and most successful of it's kind.
The adjacent beach will be designated topless for a truly European experience. If you have
attended one of our previous conventions you know what to expect. If you never have, this is
your opportunity to experience the most incredible couple's gathering imaginable. Details
can be found at our website. Don't miss out!
April 19 - 21, 2002
Velvet Spring Gathering: Roger, Laura & Mitch PO Box 3915, Federal Way, WA.
98063 [253] 946-5018, E-mail: info@velvetfantasyclub.com
Web: http://www.velvetfantasyclub.com The Pacific Northwest's first spring
convention. Velvet Fantasy presents two nights of hotel accommodations, two
evenings of dancing, a buffet dinner, informative erotic seminars, vendors and
use of an indoor clothing optional swimming pool. Conveniently located at a
Seattle area hotel.
May 15-19, 2002
Miami in May: A Tess & Bob production. The French Connection, PO Box 2592,
Covington, LA 70435-2592, Phone: 504-416-7940; Fax: 985-871-9881;
E-mail: frenchconx@aol.com; Web: http://www.miamiinmay.com. Annual Convention,
from the same producers of the popular N'awlins in November. Located right
on Miami Beach with access to nearby Haulover Beach, voted the top nude
beach in America. Oceanfront rooms, entertainment, boutiques and Hot Miami
Nights you will never forget
July 31-August 4, 2002
LIFESTYLES Convention: By LSO, Ltd. The Lifestyles Organization, PO Box
6978, Buena Park, CA 90622-6978; 714-821-9953; Fax: 714-821-9919;
E-mail: Convention@lifestyles.org; Web: http://www.lifestyles-convention.com.
Annual international convention, since 1973, held every Summer. The largest
gathering of PlayCouples in the world. Academic and experiential presentations
on lifestyle, relationships, sexuality, topical subjects; Adult MarketPlace exhibits;
Erotic Art Exhibit; games, theme dances; Ms. Lifestyles Swimsuit Pageant,
Evening of Caressive Intimacy and Erotic Masquerade Banquet & Ball. Events
are sponsored by resorts, airlines and various corporations. All couples welcome.
We return to the fabulous RENO HILTON HOTEL which was the site of Lifestyles
1999 & 2000. This time it will be a complete hotel takeover.
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The Lets Party Naked News Letter is compiled by:
Steve Anderson
http://www.letspartynaked.com
1770 S. Randall Rd.
104A
Geneva, IL 60134
Toll Free: 1-866-546-2824
steve_anderson@letspartynaked.com
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